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Life is a gift so we need to take it as so. Life comes at once and can't be tasted again. We need to be engaged in learning to ease our life in future. Every moment is a source of lesson if we pay attention. Also we learn from the stories of others. Sometimes we regret and sometimes we wish our past. We plan many things and we accomplish some of them.
My friends when I look back, I hate one of the approach which I had with people. I was remaining alone filled with different idle confusions. Thanks for changing that life style. As we meet others, we "went out" ourselves and our depression is released. We all are at different sorts of situations, thinking for next without enjoying the present.
I have one regret in my life i,e not spent enough time with my parents. When I was a little, I used to sit alone leaving family and relatives aside. This type of lifestyle broke my relationship with people even my parents. My father was regularly repeating "you have forgotten us". These words are touching me very much. Some years ago before my father passed away, I wanted to be with them. But "being with parents" remained only dream rather than I could have fulfilled it. As my studies were always barring my relationship with people and parents. But after completing my twelfth grade, I learnt how to study along with staying with people. Before that I just focused on studies and negating everything else.
My brother remember we as humans need to fulfill rights of everything.
The more you fulfill the rights, the more you will be productive
By rights, I mean you need to contribute in everything which one society or human demands. You need to work, to be with your friends and relatives, to participate in social services like helping needy ones etc.
Also we get wisdom from others. Being a learner, you can learn things from those whom you have been overlooking. Remember never denigrate anyone as everyone has intelligence and sense of understanding. Surely you may not understand him but you should never overlook his rationality.
Those, overlooked by you, may be your next teachers
My brother I yet remember a girl ,whom I am looking with innocent eyes, overlooking me when we are with others. Perhaps she looks at my academic performance without looking at my hardships I am passing through. I don't hate her but one thing I want to teach her i,e Never overlook anyone.
Use phone calls and social media to get love
My friends be humble and polite. Forgive people to let them return in relationship with you. I have observed one thing that we don't forgive one another which results in dissension and hatred. If we don't forgiven, tomorrow same mistake may be committed by us. At that time, we will also wish to be forgive and relied for future goodnesses. We should remember good moments of one another to get closer and nearer. We should respect and honor everyone and must avoid mockery and fun. You should deal others as you wish to be dealt with. You never wish to be overlooked by others so you should also not overlook anyone. Also remember not to backbite anyone as you are trying to denigrate your own brother. When you can't bear sour words then how he can?
Like same for others as you like for yourself
Be always a good listener. It will improve your value among people and will create nice relationships. People love to be heard do it for then. Also don't sell your precious stories to vagrant people. Value your stories by sharing them only with those who understand you.
Never follow your own vague thoughts about others which blindly turn you away from others. You make their unacceptable picture which has no evidence. Hating others is easy but it should not be your approach as it always bears thorns rather than roses.
You will get as you sow
