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Love is the word which is delightful, soothing and attractive. Everyone needs love, one may express it's need and the other may not but no one can deny it's existence. I define love as
"Love is the source of security"
Until someone loves you, you don't find safe youself.
You will be familiar with the definition of "love" of people. You might have seen the posts of love in different social medias which is basically a type of love and not the proper definition of it. People define sexual love as love leaving behind other types of love such as love of brotherhood, sisterhood , parenthood and others.
This wrong framed definition of such a sweet word is really hurting me. It doesn't give any space for loving my brothers or sisters or parents or anyone else out of sexual love.
We should remember that sexual love is a kind of materialistic love in which one is just in search to fulfill his desire rather than understanding the other one. This is the reason people sometimes kill one another for such a little cause without understanding one another.
Rather than only focusing on sexual love, we have to pay some attention to other types of love as well. As sexual love is bound to certain age limit and then it vanishes off. If we ignore other types of love , a child who is in his infancy can not get love and henceforth his life will be difficult and stressful. Same thing happens with older ones who needs assistance of others (their sons and daughters) but don't receive because of their own early less caring of others.
When you don't emotionally invest in others, how can they invest in you
When we don't understand others, how can we expect that they will understand us.
There are many treasures given by our Creator and love is one of the precious gold. We need to love others because in this journey we also get the same fragrance as receiver does. As if we hurt others, we hurt ourselves.
I hope that my friends will start loving and caring to one another. By God's will, I will share with you different kinds of techniques which will greatly help you in developing love with others and will have good psychological effect as well.
Stay tuned and enjoy the psychology of others.
